HAVE OR DO NEGATIVE STEREOTYPES, ATTITUDES, AND FEELINGS TOWARD BLACKS CHANGE? IS IS ALWAYS ''US VS THEM FEEL?

I know you guys feed your own stereotypes, alot of times. You guys hate each other but want others to love you. This is not logic. Am getting to know a mixed race black girl that comes from both sides of the fence she is always telling me how black men HATE BLACK WOMEN. Look at the hip hop songs all they show is kim kardashian looking h@e women and not your own women. White people love each other, I love white women because my mother is a blonde haired blue eyed woman. How would I look hating white women? This may sound ist but my mom told me a man needs to be a man for his woman. My dad was always around and a good provider, that is who I will be also, black men are not around for there women.